Except that lately it isn't working. My life that is. And neither am I. I've been blaming my nutty dysfunction on my grief, and on some other things but at the end of the day why I'm nutty doesn't matter as much as recognizing that I am and then working to fix it. I have increased my prayer life but I still felt the need to do something else. Lots of little signs have been pointing me towards resurrecting my meditation efforts and I finally decided that instead of continuing to flounder around trying to get things right, I would just settle down in my spirit and focus on meditation.
It was a good idea. It IS a good idea. However, I see that these 21 days are going to be more challenging than I thought.
You know how I joke a lot about being a heathen? You don't? Oh, well I do. Its a constant running joke in my life. Many of my friends and family members are very spiritual and religious people. Many are spiritual leaders (ministers, pastors, etc) and I completely respect what they do and how they serve. And I am grateful for their presence in my life because they are constant reminders for me to just act right. So, since I have a potty mouth and a dirty mind, I often joke that I'm a heathen but I'm getting it together.
Well, this morning's attempt at meditation reminded me just how much of a heathen I am. *shaking my head* Its going to be a long 21 days. So here's how it went....
- Looks at the email reminder and thinks, hm.... do I feel like doing this today?
- Looks again at the email 20 minutes later feeling conflicted. I mean, I did sign up for this. Nobody forced me to. And I know I need to get still and focus.
- An hour later posts on facebook and twitter that I'm starting this 21 day meditation challenge hoping for some accountability from my facebook friends and twitter followers. I hate for someone to ask me about something and I've already junked it and moved on to something else.
- Two hours later, looks again at the email and says... well, at least open the link and see what the mediation is about.
- Clicks through and reads -- very calming stuff -- and notices that there is a recording. Clicks the recording and hears Deepak's calming voice.
- First thought.. man, dang.... that accent is going to be tough. o_0 After giving myself the side eye for rudeness for no reason, decides that my nasty attitude is probably the best reason I have for doing this meditation exercise.
- Starts playing the recording. Listens intently... for approximately 45 seconds and then picks up cellphone to play words with friends.
- Gets disgusted with self, starts recording over and puts cellphone down.
- Chastises self to focus! And then proceeds to listen intently.
- This time I get to about 2 mins before I get fidgety and wonder what's happening on twitter.
- Pulls up the hootsuite and checks things out. Nothing popping over here. Oh... wait, that looks like a great article about something or another, let me pop on over to CNN and see what's cracking.
- 45 minutes (and 20 different websites) later, realizes that I've totally ditched my meditation and decides okay.. FOCUS NICOLE! Let's get back to it.
- This time I get about 4 minutes in before I realize that all this focus on my breath has made me realize that I'm hella thirsty. Can you drink water while you're meditating? Hm, who's banging that gong? Sounds like a little one. And... are those chimes? Like wind chimes or something else? Wonder who created this track? Deepak's voice is making me sleepy.
- Stops the recording just beyond the halfway point.
- Agrees with self that I completely suck at meditation. Even though Deepak said not to beat myself up if I skip a day, I'm feeling really pathetic that I can't make it through 15 minutes of sitting still and being quiet.
Its going to be a long three weeks. Say a prayer for your favorite breast cancer blogger. I need this stillness and this discipline but good lawd.... I did forget how tough it is to just focus on your breath.
Will try to complete day 1's meditation later. Want to be prepared for day 2. If you're interested in joining me... check it out.